become too wishy washy and weak
Learn what
do women hate in a man and
what
women want
in a manWomen's liberation has turned the
focus on men to be more in their their
hearts and to treat women with respect
etc. eHowever a lot of men have lost their
way andbecome too wishy washy and weakLearn what
do women hate in a man and
what
women want
in a man
Most 
men feel
uncomfortable about their women's
more negative emotional aspects. Standing up to a
feminine women takes courage and
most men like ease. They either run
away or try to make suggestions on how to
solve the women's emotional problems.
This makes things worse!
If a man has not really cut the emotional neediness with their mother the women comes into his life and in 10 minutes knows how to take the place of their mother. Maybe she does this unconsciously but she know she can get what she wants. The man will never go and face this issue because it is a deep issue from childhood. This neediness puts a tightness or band around the back of the mans heart area. The more often he does not act from integrity the more energy he looses and life looses the sparkle and challenge.
Also the man never challenges the women to face up to her little girl issues if he always gives in to her. Most women challenge their man so they can grow up. They can sense the true potential in their man and they want him to grow up. So they nag and challenge their man. Can he stay present when she gets emotional. Can he not shut down when her kali energy comes out and she even can take on the appearance of a demon. I feel a man should also challenge the women to grow up too.
If a man is needy and wants sex, he tends to try to keep his women happy by not standing up or negotiating for what he wants. Funny enough, this has the opposite effect with most women, he gets less sex. If you ask women how they react to needy men you will get strong feedback like yuk etc.
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I remember a man telling me a wile ago that for 3 months he asked every available women out. He would even in the street walk up to a women and ask her out. At first he got the feedback to get lost etc. After asking many many women out he got to the stage that he did not care less if they said yes or no. He had got over his rejection response. As soon as he was not needy the women started to respond to him and some started to say yes.
I know a unique energy body worker that is my mentor in the sexual area. He is totally in his integrity. I would define this as he feels, thinks and his actions are all unified. He can give women orgasms from his tantra hugs, on the phone and even across the room. I have seen him in a introductory talk ask for a women from the audience and she lies down fully clothed. He moved his hands about 6 inches above her body and in 10 to 20 minutes she is in continuous orgasms. I still reminder a hug from him that caused so much energy in my body that I had to push him away after 3 seconds. I have never before experienced so much sexual energy in his workshops either.
Women love his energy and his integrity. He never tries to please them to keep them happy. He is like a sex magnet and women tell their friends about the amazing energetic sexual experience they have had with him and recommend him to others. He can feel the women's energetic state in his body and he comes totally from his heart. Women ask him and pay him for tantric sex. He never has to ask for sex.
His message for men is to act from integrity. Most of what is on this page is inspired by him. Overcome your mothers issues and stand on your own two feet. Break free from the neediness for sex or to be in a relationship so you then can't be manipulated. Go into your energetic body especially during sex.
So how can you start to grow in this area. I've got a long way to go in this area in men's dating secrets so it is work in progress for me. I feel you first must grow to love being uncomfortable and challenged. Learn to like being at your edge. Any relationship will provide many opportunities to grow up. Go for the scary option instead of the easy option. Every day so something that is scary or anything you have some fear around. I know this is hard but if you do this I have found you generate a lot more energy and bliss in your life.
I also try to remember during the day to go to my breath. Is it full and relaxed and am I using my belly in my breath. Is my anus relaxing on every in-breath. When I am challenged emotionally can I stay present and relaxed in my breath or do I tighten up.
Like I said before, one of the best ways to learn more about the signs of flirting in women or show their interest is to watch them interacting with other guys. And with you. You should start paying attention to this when you are out and about.
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